We give some tips on how to limit your kids' usage on the addictive iPhone and iPod Touch devices.
Guest contributor Berna Erol is the founder of iKidApps.com, which hosts fun iPhone and iPad kids apps, as well as a wealth of tips for parents. Follow her at http://twitter.com/bernae.
Since its inception, the iPhone (along with the iPad and iPod Touch) has received rave reviews from adults and children alike. A portable computer-like device that does everything but your laundry – what’s not to love? Even though we all love our iPhones, iPads, and iPod Touches, there is no denying that they can be addictive.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends children watch no more than one or two hours of television each day, so it’s feasible they would suggest the same for using an iPhone. Too much sensory stimulation can be detrimental to a child’s developing brain, so parents need to keep this in mind when they shuffle their kids from computer to TV to iPhone to Xbox. Experts agree that children who are glued to the TV or who play too many video games end up having more difficulty learning. Excessive use of electronics can even lead to sullen or aggressive behavior, so it’s definitely a good idea to limit your kids’ iPhone and iPod Touch usage. Knowing that to set barriers is the easy part; actually enforcing those limits is where it gets tricky.
Talk to your kids
Start with a frank discussion with your child about the limits you are going to put in place. If your kid has been used to playing with your iPhone anytime she wants, and you suddenly grab it and say “Time’s up!” – well, you can imagine the temper tantrum that would follow. Tell your child why you’ve decided to give time limits and help her understand it’s in her best interest. Check out How to prevent your kid from becoming an iPhone addict? and Learning From A to Z “Setting the Bar” for ideas.
Set rules, limits and follow through
Establish and maintain time restrictions. In the event you have a stubborn child who balks at the idea of limiting her time with the iPhone, remain firm in your resolve. Don’t waver or give in when your kids fuss. This will only encourage them to fuss longer and harder the next time. Explain what the consequences will be if she disobeys your time limits and be consistent.
Physically separate them from the iDevice
Encourage your kids to spend time outside whenever possible. Physical activities like riding bikes, playing tag, or swimming are always more beneficial than laying around inside. Let your child join a ballet class or soccer team. Plan play dates with other kids to go to the park or pool. When bad weather keeps you indoors, pull out the dusty board games and get the whole family involved. Try puzzles, scrapbooking, sewing, painting, or baking. Whatever hobbies you help your child enjoy now will stay with them into their adult lives.
You’re not a bad parent if there are days your kid plays with an iPhone, iPad, or iPod Touch more than you’d like. Whenever possible, encourage them to spend their time playing educational apps instead of games. The key is balance and moderation – with a bit of flexibility thrown in. If all else fails, download apps that monitor and limit usage such as “Game Time Limit for Parents” to easily monitor your kid’s usage.
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