Skip to main content

Can’t find your ex? Just divorce him over Facebook, a NYC judge rules

woman serves divorce papers on facebook messenger
Kārlis Dambrāns/Flickr
Getting a divorce is never easy, and it can be a real hassle to track down your ex and force them to sign the papers, especially when they refuse point blank to do so. Still, divorce is even more difficult when you can’t actually find your ex. Now, one lucky woman in New York City has won the right to serve her husband divorce papers through Facebook, since that’s the only place she can find him.

Ellanora Baidoo, a 26-year old nurse living in Brooklyn, was given approval to start dissolving her marriage through social networking because her absentee husband refused to receive the documents in person.

According to the New York Daily News, Manhattan Supreme Court Justice Matthew Cooper said that Baidoo is “granted permission to serve defendant divorce summons using a private message through Facebook … This transmittal shall be repeated by plaintiff’s attorney to defendant once a week for three consecutive weeks or until acknowledged.”

Baidoo was married to Victor Sena Blood-Dzraku in a civil ceremony in 2009. She and her estranged partner are both from Ghana. Their union quickly dissolved after Blood-Dzraku refused to honor a promise of having a traditional Ghanian wedding in addition to the civil ceremony.

“She wanted their families there,” said lawyer Andrew Spinnell, who is representing Baidoo.

According to Spinnelli, the marriage was not consummated and the couple never lived together. Nonetheless, Blood-Dzraku refused to sign off on a divorce and has only kept in contact with his wife through Facebook and infrequent phone calls.

Blood-Dzraku has been hard to find. He told his wife that he has no permanent address and no place of employment. Even a private detective was unable to track him down, forcing Baidoo to explore the Facebook option. According to Judge Cooper’s ruling, Blood-Dzraku is so elusive that the “post office has no forwarding address for him, there is no billing address linked to his prepaid cell phone, and the Department of Motor Vehicles has no record of him.”

Spinnell says the first Facebook summons was already issued to Blood-Dzraku last week. He has yet to respond, though his response isn’t likely to be a click of the big blue “Like” button.

Christian Brazil Bautista
Christian Brazil Bautista is an experienced journalist who has been writing about technology and music for the past decade…
You can pick up the Google Pixel 7 Pro for only $500 today
The Pixel 7 Pro with its display turned on, showing the home screen.

 

If you've been holding out on buying a new phone for a while because prices are still expensive, then you may want to consider going for one of the older flagship phones. For example, while the Pixel 8 Pro is out, the Pixel 7 Pro is still a powerful and viable alternative, and even better, it has quite a few great deals on it. In fact, you can buy a brand new and sealed Pixel 7 Pro from Woot for just $500, rather than the usual $1,100, and that's for the 512GB version of the phone, so you get a lot of storage with it as well.

Read more
A new Google Pixel Tablet is coming, but it’s not what you think
Google Pixel Tablet on its charging dock.

It's been almost a year since the Google Pixel Tablet went up for preorder, leading many Android tablet fans to wonder when the inevitable Pixel Tablet 2 will arrive. A new rumor suggests that Google could release a new Pixel Tablet as early as next month, but it's probably not what you were expecting or hoping for.

According to @MysteryLupin on X (formerly Twitter), Google is planning to "relaunch" the Pixel Tablet without the charging/speaker dock included in the box. As you'll likely recall, the speaker dock is the Pixel Tablet's standout feature. You can use the Pixel Tablet on its own as a traditional Android tablet when you want, and when you're done, you throw it on the dock to transform it into a smart display. The idea of Google selling the Pixel Tablet without its claim to fame is an interesting one.

Read more
Anker sale: up to 40% off portable chargers, cable, and more
The iPhone 15 Pro Max being charged by the Anker MagGo Power Bank.

If you've been looking to pick up a new charging cable, charger, or all-in-one charging station for your Android phone or iPhone, then you'll be happy to know that Anker is having a rather large Earth-Day sale that you can take advantage of. There are a ton of discounts that you can take advantage of, too, with up to 40% off in some cases. I that wasn't enough, you can even snag yourself some free gifts, for example, one of the best accessories for a Galaxy S24 is the Anker Nano Power Bank if you spend more than $90,  or even an Anker 621 Magnetic Battery if you spend over $120. Either way, there are a lot of options, and while we've shared some of our favorite deals below, it's also worth taking a look at everything Anker has to offer by pressing the button below.

What you should buy during Anker's Sale
One of the most basic things you may need for any device is a charging cable, and Anker has a couple of great options for that. If you're on an older iPhone with a lightning cable, you can grab Anker's Anker 641 USB-C to Lightning Cable that's 6 feet long using the coupon WSPEV2KENJP2. On the other hand, if you need a USB-C to connect and charge your devices, you can grab the 6-foot Anker 543 USB-C to USB-C Cable using the code WSPEV2EHDR0C.

Read more